Turning 30: Mentors From A Distance

Most late afternoons during my college years I could be found sitting at a picnic table with headphones in. Fast forward to the present and little has changed. I spend a good portion of my day with headphones in listening to a podcast, sermon or music. They are among my most valuable tools. They help me stay focused and get things done, but more importantly these two white buds are responsible for who I am and who I am becoming.

Apple's invention of the iPod came along at just the right moment. I was in my late teens or early twenties and filled with an insatiable appetite for knowledge. Knowledge I couldn't find in the classroom, or school library. I wanted to know God and be shaped by His word. No better tool could have burst onto the scene than this new avenue of filling my mind with all manner of things called the podcast.

Regardless your tastes—there's something sitting out there just waiting to deliver massive amounts of information you'll love directly to your brain. They allow some of the most thoughtful minds to serve as mentors from a distance. They provide the opportunity for us to spend countless hours with these men, without the trouble of traveling and booking time on their calendars. We can meet with them whenever and wherever we please.

There have been many shaping voices over the years. I would like to share a few of them with you and encourage that you give them a listen on your commute, while working out or perhaps the next time your relaxing in the serene surroundings of nature.

Many voices have impacted me over the years, but John Piper has been the most influential. You're most likely familiar with his writing and teaching ministry. Perhaps you've read and been encouraged by Desiring God, Future Grace or Don't Waste Your Life. Maybe you've listened to one of his classic sermon series—I've especially enjoyed his Romans series as well as the biographical messages he's given at the Desiring God Pastors Conferences throughout the years. Piper has made a contribution to evangelical thought and discussion unlike anyone in the last half century. Among his most lasting and far-reaching contributions is his embracing and leveraging of media / technology for kingdom purposes. An early adopter of technological wizardry such as social media, podcasting & the internet, Piper has shown an entire generation of believers a model for engaging culture in a winsome way. Of the many resources available at DesiringGod.org I will commend two for your listening pleasure. The first, is his daily podcast Ask Pastor John—where Piper answers listener questions about life, theology and more in a quick yet satisfying manner. The second resource I would like to suggest is a sermon Pastor John gave as part of his series on The Book of Romans called What Is the Will of God, and How Do We Know It?—careful this one might change your life.      

Matt Chandler has served a major role in shaping and establishing much of my spiritual journey. Few can articulate the truths of the gospel in as compelling a fashion as Chandler. His compassionate plea and admonition that there is room at the foot of the cross have changed not only my life but countless others. Following in the footsteps of the aforementioned John Piper, Matt has grasped hold of the power of media—which means that the majority of his preaching catalog can be found online. From that impressive catalog—I could not recommend his sermon series on Ecclesiastes to you strongly enough. In a culture obsessed with riches, pleasure and attention this word from King Solomon is timely and needed. Matt also cohosts a weekly podcast called Culture Matters, where he and his trusty sidekick Josh Patterson discuss pertinent topics and interview some of the most compelling guests. 

Tommy Nelson is the most outstanding teacher of God's word you've never heard of. When I first subscribed to the Denton Bible Church podcast, the large booming voice of the former UNT quarterback came radiating through my headphones. It clearly and wonderfully communicated the beauty and excellence of Christ with a folksy charm that pulled me in. As a result I spent hundreds of hours listening to him unpack truth whether he was walking line by line through a text or unpacking history. The full scale of Tommy's gifts are on full display in his series entitled The 60's: The Fault Line of America and The Book of Romans

"All I want to do," Greg Koukl says, "is put a stone in someone's shoe. I want to give him something worth thinking about, something he can't ignore because it continues to poke at him in a good way." Few thinkers approach sharing the Christian worldview in as kind & conversational a manner as Greg Koukl. He is thoughtful, insightful and engaging when discussing matters of faith and reality. The Stand to Reason Weekly Podcast provides wisdom for navigating the issues of the day and tactics for engaging the world around you with truth. With this helpful tool in your pocket, you'll be prepared to give a clear & effective response to the questions of our day. 

"Discipleship is a relationship", Tommy Nelson says, "between older and younger Christians based on scripture & trust that will progressively bring the younger to resemble the other in knowledge, life and purpose through the grace of God." If he is correct, what I'm calling impact & influence is actually discipleship—without the context of personal relationship and physical presence. The fact that these men wouldn't recognize or notice me if we were in the same room is of little consequence. The Lord has used their teaching ministries to touch my life and assist my growth in Christlikeness. For this I am immensely grateful and commend their resources to you in hopes that they help spur you on. 

Want To Be A Godly Man / Women? Here's A Little Help

I sit down with guys on a regular basis who ask some variant of the same question, "I want to walk faithfully with Christ, but I am not sure where to start. Can you help me?"

While it always takes me back and I am honored to have the opportunity to help point them in the right direction, the truth is none of us are finished products. I remain very much in the trenches, fighting for faith each and every day.

Therefore the best way I know to help and serve others, is to pull back the curtain and share with them how I am seeking to grow and mature in Christ.

Today I would like to do just that with you and share the daily practices and resources that touch and inspire me in this pursuit.

So you want to be a godly man / woman?

Read God's word every day

You can't grow and mature in Christ without being connected to His word. Everything else flows from this daily devotion. The Word is central to your becoming God's man / woman. 2 Timothy 3:16 says that all scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, reproof, correction, and training in godliness so that the man of God may be competent and equipped for every good work.   

Not sure where to begin? Here is a post to help you read your bible and get more out of it.   

Memorize God's word

Hiding God's word in your heart is huge and I know of no other way to transform your mind than Bible memorization. One constant you will find among the men and women you seek to emulate most, is that they know God's word. It flows from their lips with ease. That doesn't just happen, you have to work at it.

The Scripture Typer app is one handy little way to memorizing God's word on the go. Whether you're in the line at the grocery store, sitting in the waiting room at the doctor's office, or anywhere else this app can help you.

Pray

This is perhaps the simplest aspect of our walk with the Lord, but the one we tend to emphasize the least. This is one we tend to overcomplicate when in reality prayer is just a conversation with God. Not sure where to begin? Share your hurts, fears, anxieties, worries and cares. Ask Him for wisdom and that He develop Christ like character within you. Pray His word.

Here is are some extremely helpful prayer tips from Ben Stuart. 

Lock arms with others who are running in the same direction

No soldier wanders off and goes into battle alone, and you shouldn't either. The Christian life isn't meant to be lived in isolation. In fact, isolation kills. Grab people who are after the same things and run together. There will come a day when things don’t go your way and you'll need encouragement, when hard times come and you'll need support, when you'll stray from the path and you'll need correction. These things come for everyone, and you weren't meant to face them alone.

Here are some best practices for community shared by Jonathan Pokluda. 

Avail yourself to the vast array of resources at your finger tips

We live in a crazy awesome time! It is mind blowing all the resources you have access to. How crazy is it that you can learn, and be encouraged by folks all over the world. Here are a few resources to help you get started:

5 Characteristics Of A Godly Man, and 44 Verses To Help You Become One via Todd Wagner

5 Characteristics Of A Godly Women, and 43 Verses To Help You Become One via Todd Wagner

The Key to Christian Obedience via Ask Pastor John

One of the greatest resources available to is the opportunity to fill your ears with truth through the vast amount of teaching available digitally. Here are a few sermon series and podcasts I encourage you to invest some time in:

A Few Good Men via Todd Wagner

The Carey Neiuwhof Leadership Podcast

Ask Pastor John Podcast

The Role of Men via Matt Chandler  

Stand to Reason podcast

While blog posts and teaching are fantastic and will help you grow tremendously, not much can replace the value of a book in your hand. Here are a few books that have been helpful to me, and would be worth your time: 

Don't be legalistic about it

This sounds incredibly simple and it is, but boy can it be hard to execute on them with regularity. When you miss a day, don't beat yourself up, climb back on the horse and keep riding. None of us will get there overnight, we are playing the long game. Consistency over years is what it takes.

Faithful men and women are not over night successes, they come about over a long period of time. They devote themselves daily to the word of God and prayer, and they run with other others headed in the same direction. Do they still fail? You bet! But one thing they do consistently is forgetting what lies behind and straining towards what is ahead. That is they, ask forgiveness when they fall short, confess it to others and then get right back on the horse running after Jesus. There are no perfect men, but there are plenty of broken men pursuing a perfect Savior.